Monday, September 19, 2016

New School Year 2016-2017/5777

Shalom Chaveirim/Dear Friends:

Religious School was off to a great start this past Thursday. It was wonderful to see all the excited families in our building. 

After a fun exercise with our new teacher/educator, Saragail Benjamin, who by the way, is our K, Music & SuperSunday [more on that later] teacher, the students went off with their teachers and the parents and I did a fun ice-breaker activity and went over all the important info for the year. In case you missed it, here are the highlights:

Creating a community:  In all our lives, we inhabit different communities; our families; our children’s friends parents; schools, organizations, workplaces. Temple is one more community. And to feel like you’re part of a community, you need to more than just have a membership, you need to show up and become a part of it, much as you’re doing now.  Get involved; come to services and other Temple activities; women, join Sisterhood, men, join Brotherhood; everyone, serve on a committee, take a class, make phone calls to other class parents, invite another family over for Shabbat dinner or a holiday, even someone you barely know.

We are continuing the tradition we started lass year with class services on Folk Service Friday nights, with each class providing a congregational dinner, along with two committees to help. Get to know your committee members and see if their committee and you are a good fit for partnership. Speaking of Services: In the handbook I sent out it states the requirement for the number of services your child is required to attend per year. This requirement gets back to the concept of building community. It also familiarizes you and your family with the service. There is a black loose-leaf notebook in the lobby which you should use to sign in your child for Shabbat services


Getting your child here. On time. By 4:00.  3:55 if possible. I know it isn’t always possible to be here on time but it really is disruptive to the reacher and the rest of the class to have students straggling in at 4:05, 4:10, 4:15.  We’re going to be serving snack first thing this year from 4-4:10 so if your child comes in after that, there will be no snack so feed them before they get here.  And speaking of snack, there is a sign-up sheet on your child’s classroom door, and please keep it simple. If you’re sending a fruit, such as grapes, please wash them and cut them into smaller clusters.  You don’t need to send fruit AND cheese AND crackers AND chips. Keep it to one, simple thing.

Dismissal: We ask that you come into the building and sign out your child on the sheet on the classroom door.  Children are not permitted to wait outside the building or go into the parking lot unaccompanied. This is a safety precaution.

For grades 2-7, dismissal is at 6:15, except when we have parties, such as Chanukah and the last day of school, when it’s at 6:00.  Chilcren in preK & K are dismissed at 5 or 5:15 if it’s a Music day.  And starting October 20, students taking Torah Chanting go an extra 20 minutes, until 6:35.


Every month, starting with the Simchat Torah/Consecration Service on October 23 at 5:00 [along with a Pot Luck], Saragail Benjamin will be using all her talents as a drummer, singer, educator, movement teacher, and motivational speaker to engage anyone who comes in joyful, community-building activities. Check out her website:

If you need a calendar, let me know.

So good to have your children back again. If you're able to, feel free to hang out, have a cup of coffee or tea [Keurig in the meditation chapel off the lobby], schmooze with other parents, volunteer in the classroom or library, and make this place your home away from home.

Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Memories of Israel from my father

A few weeks ago Israel celebrated her 68th anniversary. I'd like to share with you some memories from my dad, Sam Alexander, z"l, who was an American volunteer for Machal, an acronym for Overseas Volunteers.

So here is an up close and personal memoir from Dad, who died 13 years ago.

As part of Machal history I would like to add a few (details) which will fill in the story.

I grew up in a religious Zionist home. My parents had been active in Mizrahi and I was active in Hashomer Hadati. Moshe Perlstein who was one of the Lamed He (the group of  Hebrew University Volunteers who were slaughtered by the Arabs when these 35 were bringing aid to Gush Etzion), was my dear friend in the Shomer as well as Carmie Charney (Tet Carmi) who became one of Israel's outstanding poets, and Miriam Hessel who just died were all part of our Shomer Hadati Chapter in Boro Park.

In order  to facilitate Aliyah it was arranged for me to go with L & L, the office in America that recruited for what became Machal. If I remember correctly, I was part of a group of 26 men which included __________. Toward the end of March, along with 2 Hagana shlechim we went to Camp Moshava in  NY for an orientation that went on the Marine Carp. When we landed in Haifa we were housed in the Carmeli Court H. on the Hadar Ha. While there we went through an orientation, a physical, and a swearing in. One of the highlights of this week was a social evening at the apartment of Abba Chushi, who at that time was one of the top men of the Histadrut and the Hagana commander of the whole northern region. We met a number of men at this gathering. I was one of the fortunate few who were pretty fluent in Hebrew. My intensive background in Hebrew (I was able to read at age 5) stood me in good stead as early as my being stationed in Iran and Egypt in the US Army at the end of 1945 until April 1946. While in Egypt in Jan, 1946 I took advantage of an opportunity to begin learning conversational Arabic. I met a number of Jews who were serving in the British and South African Armies including Abba Eban and Chaim Herzog. While in Egypt I met a few Hagana shlechim who were engaged in smuggling.

During the evening the telephone rang. Abba Chushi answered it. The voice at the other end gave him a report of the situation in Northern Galilee. It seemed that the British were supposed to turn over some installations to Hagana but instead reneged giving them to the Arabs. When Chushi hung up the phone he was quite upset. He picked up the phone and called someone asking to speak on an untapped phone to the “old man” (since I was pretty fluent in Hebrew I had no trouble understanding). When the other end answered Chushi said, “Gut Shabbas Zaken” and the conversation was continued in Yiddish. The city of Tiberias was called the “warm city” because it has warm springs and Safed was called the “city of the Zohar,” because it was the home of Jewish mysticism. I sat there enthralled listening to a part of current history. After the conversation with Ben Gurion nothing about it was said and I felt privileged to have been able to listen to such a classified conversation.
When the group left Haifa we headed down to Tel Aviv in an armored bus. We were shot at a few times but the bullets didn't penetrate. We arrived at a reception center. While there we received our uniforms which were British surplus and our I.D. Which was two printed booklets with our picture and our own I.D. number.

Since I was going to Kibbutz Ein Hanitziv in the Bet Shean Valley, I was taken to a hotel in Tel Aviv. That night I was taken to a going away party at the Habima where I was dancing with Golda Myerson (not Meir yet) and all the celebrities in entertainment and politics. A few weeks later I got a letter telling me that when Habima was in New York, my parents were invited to their opening play and reception and they told my parents that they were honored to meet the parents of a volunteer.

When I got to Ein Hanitziv I joined my garin. A few days later I was taken to the unit in which I would serve as a combat medic. In the US Army I was trained as a medic and graduated Surgical Technical  school. The unit was B  Company, 13 Battalion, Golani Brigade. We were known as the Gdad Ha'amakin, the Battalion of the Valleys, because the Battalion was founded by and included men from all the settlements in Emek Jezreel and Emek Bet Shean. At this early stage before the founding of the State, almost all of the men slept in their own settlements because there were incidents of intimidation and shooting by Arabs. When the State was created, soldiers from Haifa and other towns and villages joined us and camps were established. At this point the only American volunteer I knew was Phil Bock who was active in A.V.I. He died a few years ago. When my unit took over Nazareth, I met Dr. Harold Levine D.D.S. Brooklyn who was running a mobile unit following the troops. I don't know where he was stationed but months later I visited his apartment in Tel Aviv which he shared with his brother Phil who was also in the Army. At some point at Ein Hanitziv Si Spiegelman came and saw military service. If I remember correctly, we were guarding a hill south of Tirat Zvi which was the border for us and the Jordanians.

I was detached from Golani some time in October when my garin went down to Kibbutz Yavne which was south of Rehovoth. We joined survivors from Kibbutz Kfar Darom and a number of South Africans. I was assigned to the second volunteer battalion which was made up of men from kibbutzim in the South West. We were used primarily as reinforcements to units facing the Egyptians. I came across Machal when I met Lionel Drucker from Canada and Rabbi Sam Burstein from New York who flew reconnaissance out of Beer Sheva. He even gave me a quick ride.

In actuality I met very few Machal while performing in a unit or a combat zone. There were a couple more volunteers whose names I don't remember. One had a leg blown off when his jeep went over a land mine. Jerry Kaplan and Mendel Math (?) who were killed in the Battle for Latrun early in the war were part of the group I went over with on the Marine Corp.
I want to recall one historic occasion. In November 1948 on the anniversary of the UN resolution of Nov. 2, 1947, I attended a concert in Jerusalem conducted by Leonard Bernstein. I had no seat so I sat on the floor behind the podium. I yelled “Yea Lenny.” He turned around and told me to meet him after the concert for a cup of coffee. I'm sorry to this day that I didn't meet with him because I was joining friends. Look what I missed.

(Written by Samuel Alexander in 2003)

Tuesday, April 26, 2016


Are you looking for fun videos to teach your child about Shabbat, holidays, and Jewish values?  The same folks who brought you G-dcast now bring you Shaboom!, a brand new kids' series from Bimbam. Learn new Hebrew words, silly songs, and have fun with the whole family.

Thursday, April 7, 2016


Passover begins at sundown April 22

Pesach, known as Passover in English, is a major Jewish spring festival, commemorating the Exodus from Egypt over 3,000 years ago. The ritual observance of this holiday centers around a special home service called the seder (meaning "order") and a festive meal; the prohibition ofchametz (leaven); and the eating of matzah (an unleavened bread). On the fifteenth day of Nisan in the Hebrew calendar, Jews gather with family and friends in the evening to read from a book called the haggadah, meaning "telling," which contains the order of prayers, rituals, readings, and songs for the Passover seder. Today, the holiday is a celebration of freedom and family.

Enjoy this fun video and read more about the holiday, customs, celebrations, how to make matzah balls, charoset and other recipes; games and crafts for children, social justice causes to tie into the holiday and so much more.

Tuesday, February 16, 2016

School Vacation Coming Up

Please note, all classes are on break this coming week, that includes:
  • Religious School
  • Chai School
  • Adult Hebrew class
  • Torah Study on Saturday the 20th and 27th
  • Wednesday Jewish History Group
  • Thursday Prophet Study Group
Have a wonderful vacation.

Monday, November 2, 2015

Some November Updates

Please note: There is no Torah Chanting class on the 5th on account of my being at the URJ Biennial.


There was some discussion on ‘to snack or not to snack,’ with some children coming home so sated that they were not hungry for dinner. The solution, keep snack simple.  A bag of chips, or pretzels, or popcorn should suffice for one class. We do not need multiple snacks, such as cheese, crackers, fruit and chips for each snack time.  Also, you do not need to send in drinks, we have a water fountain. If you want to send in fruit, please wash it in advance, and also make that the ONLY snack for the day. If you have a picky eater whom you know won’t eat anything, send him/her in with her/his own snack.  The sign up is at: and you must save your entry by clicking the save button on the top menu.

Tzedakah: Please send your child in each with either money or food which we donate to worthy causes
End time.  Please note that school ends at 6:15, regardless if there is an assembly, unless otherwise noted.  The only difference is that the students are in their classrooms rather than the sanctuary. Noted: Chanukah Party on Dec. 10th will have a 6:00 dismissal

This Friday at 5:30 is our popular Rock Shabbat.  I know some students need services hours so this is a great opportunity. 

We do not have school on Thanksgiving, Nov. 26

Looking ahead:  Start brushing off your favorite brisket recipe for the Great Brisket Bake-off on December 11th, and bring your menorahs for a congregational menorah lighting.

This Saturday is Tali BenDor’s first time leading our Tot Shabbat at 9:30, so those with young children please come out and support Tali. 

On Sunday, November 15th we have two events going on: 

for the little ones, there is Story Hour at 10:00

Also at 10 for the adults is the Global Day of Jewish Learning, you can read more about this in the upcoming weekly updates.

One last thing:

At Orientation this year we outlined the new, fun family education program this year: Jewish Game Night.  For those not in attendance, here’s the gist of it.

3 Holidays: Tu Bishvat, Purim, Passover

The Goal: Create a game on each holiday theme with other parents to be presented at each of the following Youth/Folk services
Feb. 5th (Tu Bishvat)
March 4th (Purim)
April 1st (Passover)

Your assignment: Select one of the holidays, sign up for it, attend the preliminary meeting, (Date TBD), and work on your ideas with the others in your group.

If you have not yet signed up, please sign up next time you’re in the building or email me which holiday you’d like (Tu Bishvat is looking a little needy).  If we don’t hear from you in the next two weeks, you’ll be assigned a holiday.