Thursday, August 3, 2017

Why Bother? A Religious School Manifesto


I hope everyone is enjoying this wonderful summer.

On occasion I've reprinted articles of interest. This lastest one from eJewishPhilanthropy is so spot-on that I just had to share it with you.  Enjoy! --Morah Judy

By Rabbi Nicki Greninger
*This goes out to all parents thinking of sending their kids to a (Jewish) religious school… to parents who were raised Jewish, those who chose Judaism, and those who aren’t Jewish but married a Jew.*
In the last month, I’ve had several conversations that got me thinking. One friend asked a group of us who went to Jewish summer camp together (we are now grown up with kids of our own), “Are you going to send your kids to religious school?” In another social situation, a friend innocently asked “Why do kids go to religious school twice a week starting in third grade?” In both cases, these friends of mine are connected to the Jewish community and are already committed to raising Jewish kids. But they (along with many others) wonder about the value of religious school, and about the time commitment required to take part in it. Is it worth it?

Monday, May 8, 2017

Reconciling Science with Religion

Mayim Bialik is not only a scientist (and she plays one on TV), she is also a thoughtful, observant Jew.

I'd love to share this video with you about her take on science and religion.  It would be wonderful to share and discuss with your children.

For more from Mayim Bialik, follow her on her website:

Tuesday, May 2, 2017

Reflections on The Six Day War on its 50th Anniversary


The year was 1967, 50 years ago. It was June. I know because I was looking forward to the end of the school year, which for a 9 year old who hated school and loved summer, can't come soon enough.

I went to an Orthodox Yeshiva, the Hebrew Academy of Long Beach. That meant when we got to school each morning at 7:30 we had a half hour of prayers, followed by a full morning of Hebrew studies, (Torah, language, grammar, Prophets) lunch, then a full afternoon of secular studies. We were dismissed at 4:00.


This was not my first introduction to Israel. I came from a home that was ardent Zionist. When he was growing up, my father, Sam Alexander, z"l, was a member of the Hashomer Hadati, a religious Zionist group.  His mother, Minnie Alexander, was a founding member of a women's Mizrahi chapter in Brooklyn, a women's Zionist volunteer organization. My dad, a WWII veteran, joined a garin of like-minded Americans in 1947 with the specific purpose of making aliyah, and trained to be a medic, which came in handy when he joined the Haganah (the pre-Israel Army) and fought in the War for Independence in 1948. Both my mother, Leila, and her mother, Freida Blum, were active members of Hadassah, another women's Zionist organization.  It was in my blood.

I was raised on this, plus all the songs I learned as a child were songs of longing for Zion, Jerusalem restored, about Israel being the beating heart of the Jewish people, such as HaKotel (The Wall)

Hakotel - eizov v'atzevet             The kotel, moss and sadness.
Hakotel - oferet vadam               
The kotel, lead and blood.
Yesh anashim im lev shel even. 
There are people with a heart of stone.
Yesh avanim im lev adam.         
There are stones with a human heart.


By the waters of Babylon
We lay down and wept for thee Zion
We remember, we remember, we remember thee Zion


But then something happened in early June. The entire faculty was abuzz.  We learned that Israel was under attack from all sides. Five surrounding Arab nations started bombing and attacking Israel.

As the news reports came each day, our entire school gathered together in the cafeteria for special prayers.  It was the first time I saw grown ups collectively weep and also the first time that I realized how vital prayer was to a people. If anything could stop that war, it was the voices of the hundreds of students and teachers in our cafeteria; our prayers.  My prayers.

Later that week I went into New York City with my best friend and I'm sure there was a parent involved but whose I don't remember. We ended up at the Magen David Adom (The Israeli Red Cross), and made endless phone calls asking for money that was so dearly needed.  To this day, I don't know how they let two 9-year-olds do this, but no one asked questions, they were grateful to have us. As I recall we got may pledges.

Skip to the latter part of the week. A miracle occurred.  Our prayers were answered.

By the time of the June 11, 1967 cease-fire, the Israelis had captured the Sinai Peninsula and Gaza from the Egyptians, the Golan Heights from the Syrians and the West Bank from the Jordanians. But the real prize was the liberation of the Old City of Jerusalem from Jordan, which had ruled it since 1948. David Rubinger’s famous photograph [see left] of a few young soldiers from the Israel Defense Forces reaching the ancient stones of the Western Wall, the most sacred spot in Judaism, has become the iconic Jewish image of the past 50 years. Multiple generations have been raised on this tale of triumph.

Elie Weisel wrote: For Jews around the world, these last events are a deep source of pride. Every Jew witnessed and survived this trial together. Rarely, as a people, do we feel such a deep connection to each other, of loyalty to the purest principles driven by our shared history.


And yet, Israel still struggles, for whenever there is a victor, there are those who lose: sometimes their lives, their homes, their land. There remains the problem of the Palestinians, who claim the same area of land. Did you know that only about 1% of the world’s refugees and displaced people are able to return to their homes each year? Yet we hear no criticism of most nations on Earth, save Israel, and always hear: why isn't Israel doing more?  Israel is not perfect, and continues to look for a partner in peace, one that does not insist the map of Palestine occupy the entire area from Jordan to the Mediterranean, but one that makes way for Jews and recognizes Israel as a sovereign, Jewish nation.

At the end of every Passover Seder we say L'Shanah Haba-ah Beyrushalayim, Next Year in Jerusalem. Let us continue to hope and pray for the day when Israel and her neighbors can find and live together in peace.

Am Yisrael Chai!

Wednesday, March 29, 2017

Summer Time and the Choices are Many


By now many of you have decided what your child(ren) is doing this summer.  But in case you're on the fence, please consider several choices of Jewish camping, social activism, and academic programs.

Did you know...

The URJ (Union of Reform Judaism) runs 16 summer camps?  Everything from your regular old sleep-away to sports academies, science academies and much more.

Check it out.

Did you know...

Right here in Vermont there is an Eco-Jewish Education and Mentoring program called Roots & Trails?  This is a camp for girls, women, and all who identify as female. This hiking adventure and runs programs all year long for multi-age groups. There is also a summer program.  Check it out.

Did you know...

The URJ runs a Mitzvah Corps each summer where social activist-minded teens can participate in many community-based programs to enhance social justice and racial justice.  One of our teens, Rachel Rovner, recently spoke at services about her experience this past summer. One of our Religious School teachers, Holly Issenberg, participated several summers ago. If you'd like more information for your teen, let me know. Check it out.

Did you know...

Brandeis University runs a summer program for teens, the Brandeis Genesis program?

Connect with motivated students from around the globe and learn with professionals in their fields for a life changing summer of intensive study, experiential learning and vibrant Jewish community.

Courses at Genesis are unlike any high school classroom learning experience.  The courses examine areas of knowledge that begin with an academic discipline as seen through a uniquely Jewish lens.  Our faculty lead you through complex, compelling topics that encourage critical thinking and challenge assumptions. Jewish texts, traditions and perspectives infuse your study of subjects ranging from gender to technology to world religions and cultures. This year Genesis will offer:

Shape what and how you learn. Explore new perspectives, develop and strengthen your voice, pursue your interests within a dynamic community, and discover how Judaism informs the way you see and approach every part of your world.

Check it out and watch the video.

There are so many wonderful programs for your children.  See which one is right for them.

Monday, February 20, 2017

Faith in the Flesh

This posting comes courtesy of Commentary Magazine. It is a particularly poignant read for Interfaith families, written from the non-Jewish parent's point of view. I hope you'll take the time to read it and feel free to discuss. -- Morah Judy

At her coming of age, an observant Jewish daughter feels the full blow of intermarriage; so does her devout Christian…

R. R. RENO for Commentary Magazine

That Saturday morning in January, I watch as the winter sun angles through the window to break upon my daughter’s hair, pulled back in a tight, neat bun. Beside my daughter stand her mother, her grandmother, and her great-grandmother. Three generations of women come to hear a fourth, my daughter Rachel, read from the Torah scroll.

We rise as the words roll out. Vay’daber elohim et kol ha-d’varim ha-eileh leimor. Rachel’s shoulders are draped with a shimmering cloth. She has a silver pointer the size of a large pen in her hand. She is following the verses as she chants them in Hebrew, tracing out in her mind the figures of musical ornament that she has learned for singing this portion of Scripture. My parents are behind me, along with sisters and brother, nieces and nephews, and row after row of friends who fill the sanctuary.

Continue reading.

Thursday, January 19, 2017

Learning and Teaching Torah through Literature

I want to bring your attention to a blog: 

Learning and Teaching Torah  through literature. 

I will say that this site is run by an Orthodox woman so some of the choices may not be in keeping with your philosphy, but often the books recommended are really good, such as this week's The Family Midrash Says The Book of Daniel by Rabbi Moshe Weissman.

If you'd like to subscribe to the email you may do so by going to their website:

BTW, speaking of reading, if you have a child under the age of 8, are you subscribed to PJ Library? If your child is older, are aware of PJ Next?

Tuesday, December 6, 2016

Leonard Cohen & Facing the Darkness

Shalom Chaveirim/Dear Friends:

Many of you know of my love of Leonard Cohen, so when he died a few weeks ago I, and millions around the world, were saddened by his passing.  He left a great legacy of poetry and music, much of it very Jewish in character, particularly his final album, You Want it Darker.

  wrote a wonderful piece for,

Leonard Cohen & Facing the Darkness. 

There is a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in.

Leonard Cohen has been on my mind a lot lately, as we approach the darkest time of year. Maybe it’s because Cohen was a man who seemed most at home in the dark and brokenness of this world. I first encountered him as a young girl in the back seat of a blue Volvo station wagon, on our annual family pilgrimage down to visit my Bubbie and Zaidie in Miami. In those pre-iPad and earbud days, whatever we did on that drive down, we did together: counting license plates, listening to stories and yes, singing together. And then, there was always a point in the late night drive when my father would sing to us. A Leonard Cohen fan, he would sing of Suzanne, and how “she takes you down to her place by the river”. As he went on to describe “she feeds you tea and oranges that come all the way from China,” I had an image in my young mind of a canoe filled with clementines.

I next met Cohen as an angsty adolescent reading his poetry. I discovered a poet who reminded us that “there is a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in”. The world might be deeply imperfect, but that didn’t mean it was bad. It’s this clarity that has me thinking about a man, whose grave is marked Eliezer HaCohen, and how he might help us to encounter the dark that meets us now – in the world, our lives and as we draw towards Hanukkah.